First i want to thank you all for your kind words , Andrew is over the operation and although looking pale and weak [a first for him ] he seems to be alot better ,he will be comming home tommrow evening , he is just so releaved its over and cant wait to get back to normal, he has lost a lot of weight and really needs building up , that wont be a prob Mama bear is on the case!!!!!, I will be cooking up a storm, [ and more than likely driving him up the wall] he says i worry too much , easy to say when your not the mammy!!!! And to cap it all i have my mammy and eds mammy telling me what to do ,IRISH MAMMYS YE GOTTA LOVE EM . Anyway thanks again for everything , Angie xx